It's important for people to figure out their own lives before involving someone else - to gauge where you are and work on your own issues. - Scarlett Johansson


invokingbees:

ex0skeletal:

randomlancila:

My friend @murphmanfa sums up my feelings about 50 Shades of Grey PERFECTLY. I like my share of problematic things, but far too many women read these books and don’t KNOW they’re problematic, and believe that THAT is how bdsm works. It absolutely is not. Christian is abusive, manipulative, and is a downright bully. In a true dom/sub relationship, I would even go as far as to say that the sub is the one with the real power. They set the limits. A true dom will never bully you, never guilt you, never make you feel bad about saying no, and never ignore limits. You should never fear your dom. The amount of women who want a relationship like the one portrayed in the books frankly scares me. Absolute consent. Absolute limits. Absolute mutual respect. A dom who searches for a pushover is not a dom at all, but instead someone who gets off on abusing women and pretends it’s under the guise of kink. Do not trust any dom who enjoys 50 Shades of Grey. If you enjoy this series as a bit of throwaway reading, that’s cool, we all have our guilty pleasures. But do NOT ignore the problematic elements. Hope this helps. (I enjoy bdsm and kink in general so I feel I have some authority to say these things.)

Yes.

I’d also like to add, as a writer, this book’s mere existence and popularity is disgusting. What began as Twilight fanfiction (let’s not even go down THAT road) has now become one of the best-selling novels of all time, eclipsing writers of real talent and imagination, instead flooding the market with this cheap, shock-tactics hack-work and its numerous imitators who cashed in with their mimics. Add to this the comments made above and one has to wonder why this got so popular. Sex sells. And apparently bad sex sells the best.
This is one thing I will gladly agree with Tumblr on.

invokingbees:

ex0skeletal:

randomlancila:

My friend @murphmanfa sums up my feelings about 50 Shades of Grey PERFECTLY. I like my share of problematic things, but far too many women read these books and don’t KNOW they’re problematic, and believe that THAT is how bdsm works. It absolutely is not. Christian is abusive, manipulative, and is a downright bully. In a true dom/sub relationship, I would even go as far as to say that the sub is the one with the real power. They set the limits. A true dom will never bully you, never guilt you, never make you feel bad about saying no, and never ignore limits. You should never fear your dom. The amount of women who want a relationship like the one portrayed in the books frankly scares me. Absolute consent. Absolute limits. Absolute mutual respect. A dom who searches for a pushover is not a dom at all, but instead someone who gets off on abusing women and pretends it’s under the guise of kink. Do not trust any dom who enjoys 50 Shades of Grey. If you enjoy this series as a bit of throwaway reading, that’s cool, we all have our guilty pleasures. But do NOT ignore the problematic elements. Hope this helps. (I enjoy bdsm and kink in general so I feel I have some authority to say these things.)

Yes.

I’d also like to add, as a writer, this book’s mere existence and popularity is disgusting. What began as Twilight fanfiction (let’s not even go down THAT road) has now become one of the best-selling novels of all time, eclipsing writers of real talent and imagination, instead flooding the market with this cheap, shock-tactics hack-work and its numerous imitators who cashed in with their mimics. Add to this the comments made above and one has to wonder why this got so popular. Sex sells. And apparently bad sex sells the best.

This is one thing I will gladly agree with Tumblr on.

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positivelyindecent:

stonzie:

Okay, legit fucking crying.

You bet your elderly testicles I did.


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6 hours ago - ♥85492   #lotr  #YIS  
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femgermania:

sabinaionescu:

ask-casual-male-mikasa:

arminsarmy:

Have you guys seen this?

Because it’s easily favorite snk video of all time..  

Intro starts, I knew what music this is

hella *starts singing along*

Leaving the music aside, the synchronisation is amazing.

it doesn’t even seem forced or anything they make the music fit and it fucking works

http://arminsarmy.tumblr.com/post/65940425694/have-you-guys-seen-this-because-its-easily arminsarmy
6 hours ago - ♥28773   #snk  

vinebox:

shouldnt:

SHE IS REAL

SHE IS REAL

http://shouldnt.tumblr.com/post/90797792231 shouldnt
6 hours ago - ♥97477
Anonymous asked, "Im pretty sad that harley and ivy arent canon lesbians for eachother i mean cOME ON"

elphabaforpresidentofgallifrey:

nannairb:

clintbarttons:

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YOU FORGOT HARLEY’S REACTION TO THAT, ASKING IF SHE MEANS LIKE HOW PEOPLE SAY BATGIRL AND SUPERGIRL ARE FRIENDS

THEN BATGIRL CHANGES THE SUBJECT

SUPER LESBIANS DESERVE THEIR OWN SUPER SHOW


6 hours ago - ♥30799   #lesbifriends  

Allstar City
M83 / Smash Mouth
93,135 plays

voldey:

maxwelln:

jerryterry:

Did you know that M83’s Midnight City and Smash Mouth’s All Star have a tempo difference of only 1 BPM?

I thought I had enough allstar

WHAT THE HELL


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Staying Savvy

A collection of things that help me stay me.
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